Showing posts with label Dare to Happiness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dare to Happiness. Show all posts

6.06.2014

Mentor-Disciple

"The role of the mentor is to point toward an ideal and the most effective means of its achievement, while the disciple strives to realize this ideal on an even greater scale than has been achieved by the mentor. The shared ideal, and the shared struggle to realize it, create a profound closeness in the lives of mentor and disciple--what Buddhism describes as the 'oneness' of mentor and disciple. This is the lifeblood of Buddhism."
In any field, a person who aids the development of another may be regarded as a mentor. In Buddhism, which is concerned with human happiness and development, the mentor-disciple relationship is fundamental. The foundation of the relationship between mentor and disciple in Buddhism is the shared pledge to work together for the happiness of people, to free them from suffering.
The Lotus Sutra, the Buddhist scripture that is the basis of Nichiren Buddhism, contains a vivid allegorical description of the moment when the Buddha's disciples make this pledge. The sutra describes how, during an occasion when Shakyamuni Buddha is preaching, the earth splits open and a multitude of resplendent bodhisattvas (individuals who have made compassionate action the foundation of their being) emerge. These so-called "Bodhisattvas of the Earth" are firmly resolved to continue to live out Shakyamuni's teachings after his passing, in the difficult and corrupted age to come. They vow to exert themselves to save people from suffering in this period of great social and spiritual turmoil, facing head-on whatever hardships they may encounter.
This grand, cinematic description portrays the profundity of the shared commitment of mentor and disciple to working for people's happiness throughout time. It is a metaphor for the transformation of the Buddha's disciples from passive recipients of the teachings to people committed to advancing on the path of compassionate action pioneered by the Buddha.

Defining a Path

Buddhism is a philosophy with the aim of empowering people. Its central premise is that each person has the innate capacity to triumph in any circumstances in which they find themselves, to surmount any source of suffering, transforming it into a source of growth and strength. It is a philosophy established on the conviction that there exist within the lives of each of us at each moment inexhaustible reserves of courage, wisdom, compassion and creative energy.
The mentor makes the disciple aware, and continues to remind him or her, of this profound potential, giving the disciple confidence in their own unrealized possibilities. It is the mentor's own life, at least as much as their teaching, that provides this inspiration. The abstract ideal of enlightenment is made tangible in the mentor's character and action.
The mentor's life is focused on the empowerment of others, modeling the fact that our own highest potential and happiness are realized through taking action for others. As SGI President Daisaku Ikeda writes, "The enlightenment and happiness of both self and others: A true mentor in Buddhism is one who enables us to remember this aspiration."
The path of developing one's own humanity that Buddhism maps out--the "path of enlightenment"--lies in the balance of having the courage to squarely confront one's own challenges, striving to grow and develop as a person, while taking action for the sake of others. At a crucial moment of indecision, thinking of a mentor's example can help one take a courageous step and break through one's limitations. The mentor's teachings and example help the disciple continue to progress on this difficult path of enlightenment--difficult because of the powerful countervailing tendencies of the human heart toward complacency, fear, arrogance and laziness. SGI President Ikeda comments: "A mentor helps you perceive your own weaknesses and confront them with courage."
That the mentor is a model of Buddhist practice does not mean that the disciple strives to imitate the mentor's persona, but rather to learn from the mentor's example, or way of life, and to bring that approach to life to bear on their own particular circumstances, expressed through the qualities of their own unique character. It is by internalizing the mentor's spirit in this way that the disciple grows and develops beyond their self-perceived limitations. The mentor-disciple relationship in Buddhism is a courageous path of self-discovery, not imitation or fawning.
In Buddhism, ultimate responsibility lies with the disciple. The mentor is always prepared to teach. The disciple must choose to seek and learn, and will develop to the extent that he or she works to absorb and take action on the basis of the mentor's teachings.

A Genuine Mentor

What criteria distinguish a genuine mentor in Buddhism? First is the fundamental orientation or motivation of the teacher--the ideal to which that person has dedicated their life. The highest, most noble ideal is the commitment to enable all people, without exception, to overcome suffering and become happy. Furthermore, a genuine teacher is one whose own efforts to seek truth and develop wisdom are continual throughout their lives. This attitude could be contrasted with that of a teacher who believes they have learned all they need to know and need only dispense their knowledge in a one-sided manner. That kind of teacher is also likely to try to boost their standing by obscuring the truth and turning knowledge into a privilege, rather than making it freely available to all.
The ultimate desire of a genuine mentor is to be surpassed by their disciples. This open-ended process of growth and succession is what allows a living tradition to develop and adapt to changing times. In the Lotus Sutra, it is signified by the fact that the Bodhisattvas of the Earth are even more splendid in appearance than their mentor, Shakyamuni.
Defining the respective functions of mentor and disciple, one could say that the role of the mentor is to point toward an ideal and the most effective means of its achievement, while the disciple strives to realize this ideal on an even greater scale than has been achieved by the mentor.
The shared ideal, and the shared struggle to realize it, create a profound closeness in the lives of mentor and disciple--what Buddhism describes as the "oneness" of mentor and disciple. This is the lifeblood of Buddhism and the means by which the aspiration to live a fully realized life and enable others to do the same is transmitted and developed from one generation to the next. In the absence of this shared commitment and the effort on the disciple's part to strive in the same spirit as the mentor, the mentor would simply become an object of veneration and Buddhism would lose its transformative power.

Growth and Continuity

The deep connection between mentor and disciple, and in particular the relationship between the Soka Gakkai's first three presidents, is what has sustained the development of the organization. Each successive president has expanded on the vision of his predecessor in painstakingly developing a movement able to reach out to, embrace and empower the greatest diversity of people. The current SGI president, Daisaku Ikeda (1928- ), worked closely with second Soka Gakkai President Josei Toda (1900-58) in the post-World War II period to empower literally millions of Japanese people, enabling them to positively transform their circumstances. Toda himself had been imprisoned alongside his mentor, founding president Tsunesaburo Makiguchi (1871-1944), for refusing to compromise the integrity of the teachings of Buddhism under pressure from Japan's militarist government.
Ikeda has broadened and internationalized the vision of people's empowerment he inherited from these mentors, taking it beyond the scope of a religious movement and developing a global movement for the promotion of peace, culture and education.
Ikeda has described his actions as an effort to inspire others with a sense of the possibilities that one person can accomplish on the basis of the mentor-disciple spirit. He has frequently expressed his determination to open new avenues for engagement with social and global issues that can be fully developed by future generations. "The relationship between mentor and disciple," he writes, "can be likened to that between needle and thread. The mentor is the needle and the disciple is the thread. When sewing, the needle leads the way through the cloth, but in the end it is unnecessary, and it is the thread that remains and holds everything together."
The commitment to the happiness of all people is at the heart of Buddhism. But it is through the relationship of mentor and disciple, through life-to-life connections, one person's aspiration igniting another's, that this ideal is brought out of the realm of abstract theory and made a reality in people's lives.
Thank you mentor, I hope to be an earnest disciple to learn from you. NMHRK
[Courtesy January 2010 SGI Quarterly]

12.02.2013

212

2.12 is a prosperous day for me! It's not only my first anniversary after I enshrined Gohonzon, it is also my first day of pupillage! I believe it's a gift from Gohonzon. :)

Muhammad Ali Jinnah once said:" I do not believe in taking the right decision, I take a decision and make it right." Similarly, instead of wishing and hoping to get a good master or gain the best knowledge, I want to create positive values and greatest memories in my 9 months of pupillage! Therefore, I have listed 9 resolutions in my pupillage.

1. Passion

I still remember vividly where I can't answer the interviewer's question in relation to my future. Although it is important to live at the present, I want to discover my passion and focus in a specific area that I love. Passion energizes me to get up each morning and help me to find direction in my life and career. 

2. Healthy 

This seems like a must-have list in each and every of my resolution. I believe nothing can be done without mentally and physically health. Equipped with best facilities in my condominium, I must hit the gym/swimming pool/badminton court/futsal/squash more often! Also, I wish to get my golf handicap. Most importantly, I must achieve my goal-weight of 52kg. I can do it!

3. Friends

I want to be surrounded and associated with like-minded and passionate friends that can inspire me to do better. Let's try the law of attractions yayy!

4. Attitude 

A positive attitude causes a chain of reaction of positive thoughts, events and outcomes. It is a catalyst and it sparks extraordinary results. Be humble and kind to people. I am thinking of sharing positive messages with random strangers. HAHAHHA. Always treat everyone as you would want them to treat you. Be confident and fearless.  

5. Opportunites

Challenges are opportunities. There is no adversity that I cannot transform based on the Buddhist principle of "changing poison into medicine." Challenges keep a fire in my belly and my passion high. I am not going to let myself stressed out. When I feel that rush of stress, I am going to sit back and put my hands behind my head and stretch out my legs. Be prepared to receive my "crazy notes" or "love letters" to distress lol 

6. Reading

This is one of my weakness that I am trying to overcome. I must read newspaper/e-news everyday.

7. Financial 

Make money in Riggit and spend in Ruppiah and I want for nothing. I truly understand pupillage can't really earn much money but I believe that the knowledge is my greatest treasure that I will gain. It is important to have my financial planning to ensure my monthly expenses are bare minimum. You guys can still date me for lunch/dinner because I have budget for it ;d Hopefully I can get myself a Swiss automatic watch after the 9 months!

8. Blog

A minimum of 9 posts per month. I want to polish my English and share my interesting pupillage experiences with you all :)))

9. Kosen rufu

I want to contribute to my life and share it with others. One of the best ways to share passion with friends, family and colleagues is through face-to-face dialogue. That is why I much value in gatherings and soka activities. I believe it will help me to discover and reaffirm my passsion, resulting in an incredibly amazing and productive months in my pupillage. 

I foresee the traffic congestion in my near future. It will my best opportunity to chant :) Chant a minimum 30 minutes for the luck, faith, wisdom and happiness for all.

Nam Myoho Renge Kyo.


11.20.2013

change for the better

Very often I have a lots to tell but somehow they have just left untold. Sometimes I am just being secretive to tell anything because I don't want to let many people know what's going on in my life. I like to keep things to only a small circle of people due to the possible danger in the new media. I don't feel like I could write truthfully on this blog for a long time, but I am trying to think a direction for this blog because I don't want to abandon my old good friend-my blog. 

My dearest readers might have some idea what is going on. I reckon most of the people thought I am going to JB but I have changed my mind two days before I commence my pupillage in JB. Things happened that is out of my control. Marilyn Monroe once said:
"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they are right. Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together."
Psyched myself up with full of hope and spirits, waiting to start a new life, waiting to see what beckons. I am excited about pupillage, and yet apprehensive as usual. The work, stress, possibility of growing fat :p 

Everything is a vibration:-everything you see, everything you feel and everything you think. Things happened to match what you habitually think. If you are worried, you attract more things that are worrisome. If you are appreciative, you attract more things to appreciate. 

November has been an unpredictable month that is full of excitements. I have learnt how to give myself a second options. Most importantly to follow my heart. 

Keep believing Nam Myoho Renge Kyo 



10.28.2013

人一定要旅行!

19歲讀大學,問你理想是什麼,你說環遊世界;
23歲讀完大學,你說實習後成為律師再去;
25歲工作穩定,你說買了房子後再說;
30歲有車有房,你說等結婚帶另一半一起去;
33歲有了小孩,你說小孩大一點一起去;
40歲孩子大了,你說養好了老人再去;
結果最後你哪裡都沒有去。。。



旅行,就是離開生活熟悉的地方然後不一樣的歸來。
旅行,就是重新回到出發點然後認識它。
旅行,就是在地圖的一點留下自己的腳印。
旅行,就是體驗不同的地理文化。

所以我們不要偷懶,一定要旅行!一個人見識很重要,見識多了,自然會視野寬廣,然而影響你對很多事情的看法。旅行讓人更有自信,不會在物質世界裡迷失方向。

人生其實就是一場旅行,而旅行就是體會不同的人生。對每一個人說生命就是一場盛大的旅行,而日子就是你經過的每一站風景。然而美景不僅僅是目的地,而是深深的感受沿途的那些人和發生在這片土地的點點滴滴。



真正的旅行是一種生活態度,不在乎目的地和長短,離開熟悉的環境去探索陌生的風景,體會一種從未有過的人生。你不知道明天會遇見誰因為一切都是未知數。

旅行能帶人們回歸真正的自然,找回自己忽略的東西,體會永恆的意義,學會感恩,在靈魂之中發掘真正的自己,豐富自己的人生!旅行不但是在眼裡,更是在心底。如果某天在一個陌生的地方,不必知道自己何去何從,就欣賞這一站的風景而留下感動和美麗。

每一個人心中都有座山,總想翻越這座山去看看世界。但是爬到山頂卻發現還有更多更高更遠的山。我們翻越一座座山後,讓自己走更遠。這就是我們心的旅程讓自己聽見內心的聲音。



旅行是一段時間和空間的改變,無論改變多麼大你都會回到現實。不需要一直留戀過去,放膽去創造未來的美麗旅程!因為旅行最重要的不是結果,而是放下一切去感受當下的過程。

想去的地方就一個人出發吧。哪怕只是搭一般未知去向的巴士也是探索星球呀!



10.12.2013

尋找失去的微笑

如果說生命是一張七彩的唱片,那麼微笑就是一首和諧的歌,它能使生活更加燦爛;如果說生命是一個音符,那麼微笑就是一架鋼琴,它能使你的生活生動起來。池田先生說過不管遇見什麼事情都要開心的面對。我一直也很欣賞路飛的精神。我原本以為我是快樂天使,微笑永遠都沒有截至日期。

但不知何時開始我臉上的微笑漫漫不見了。我真的很努力尋找往日的開心,尋找那遺失的微笑。現在是我人生最最最黃金的假期,想做什麼都可以,想去哪裡都可以,豐衣足食。但我發現自己有越來越多的缺點。漫長的假期竟然請來了憂鬱先生的來探訪!

當我推開一層一層的心門時,我竟然發現自己內心的聲音。我發現自己原來為自己做的決定那麼心疼。做決定的時候考慮很多身邊的人,讓自己比較“輕鬆”過日子,但卻忘記問最真實的內心。自己心理有了答案,卻違背心願。然後看著自己的微笑漸漸消失。雖然就只有短短的九個月,難道地方真的可以磨滅你想學習的決心嗎?那是不可能的,我一定努力去創造價值,為我的決定負責任。我相信唱題會給我最好的路,會便毒為藥。

失去了微笑就像船隻沒有了指南針迷失方向;失去了微笑就像小鳥失去了翅膀飛不上藍天。要知道時間不會因為你不開心就停止不前,生活也不會為了你的悲傷而同情你。為甚麼不讓自己快快樂樂的度過每一天?微笑的面對考驗讓自己更加堅強!

生活就是一面鏡子,你對它笑它也會對你笑。為了自己,微笑吧,放下那些不開心的事。有些事拿得起就該放的下。不要讓自己過得太累,不要背著難過,不要把悲傷壓在肩膀上而變得脆弱。 在家根本不帶面具的我,不需要壓抑自己,想哭就大聲哭吧!然後開心瀟灑面對自己。

有理想遠見是件好事,但是不需要太過擔心未來而忘了珍惜最美好的“當下”。要找回戰勝自己的信心和勇氣,現在要尋找回失去的微笑!


世界為我加油

10.01.2013

Investing in yourself!


"Two roads diverged in a wood, I took the one less traveled by"-Robert Frost's The Road Not Taken

It has been almost eight month since I completed my studies in University. While everyone is busy completing their pupillage before being called to the bar, I am still happily having my looooong holidays. Many people do not really understand why I am wasting my time for those "nonsense".

Many wonderful things happen when you initiate. I might be late to be called to the bar, but I want to be proud when I look back when I reach mid-20s in a few years time. All I want is to meet the best people I could meet at a point of time, tried everything that I wanted to try and done the best that I could have done. I have actually spending time to invest in myself in the holidays when I walked away to talk to local kiwi and trying to understand how their life was. Understanding the place is definitely more important than having photos to proof you have set foot there!

Warren Buffet believes that the best investment you can make is to invest in yourself. The more you learn, the more you earn. Find something that you like to do and you will never work a day in your life. Let's start investing in ourselves to figure out what is our true passion and interest.

October, the month of investment and transformation from inner to outer of myself. I will keep you updates about my transformation!

See you readers! 


5.18.2013

Contentment


What is contentment? It is a state of being satisfied with what you have. I believe that we should bear in mind that there are always room for improvement even we are contended. After having a quality conversation with my friend today, I truly understand why kiwi lifestyle is so much different compared to most of the countries in the world.

We used to live in a place that keep us from content with what we have. Everyone (including myself) has always influenced by surroundings or media to be demanding. For instance, when a girl look like celebrities, specific lifestyles, marry a rich man or earning more money then will make her very happy. What is the problems with us now?

I never seen any youth in kiwiland (so far) using smartphone in comparison with most of my friends in Malaysia. You can see the rich kiwi wearing torn shirts and jeans like a normal people walking around the town, there is not much people carrying branded stuff in contrast with what we normally see in Asean countries. Kiwi (New Zealand people) are contented with what they are having now! It is the main factor that they have a longer lifespan and younger look!

I think the main problem that we are all facing now is lack of self confidence. We often being brainwash in the materialistic world that money can buy happiness. The only method to overcome this problem is to do the human revolution in order to determine what we want in the life despite of other influences. It is important to differentiate what we "want" and what we "need".

Frankly speaking, sometimes I will feel some disappointment after I came to kiwiland for 2 months. Unlike the stable working schedule as I expected, as a result I pokkai. Hahahaha. Then how can I save money to travel and to do the things I want as I imagined? Then we spent rest of our time/holidays rotting in a super small town to waste our working holidays.

BUT wait, I am feeling happy right now although everything is out of my expectation. I never knew that the tiny mini small town that I am currently living is soooo beautiful espcially the wharf and beaches. It is more beautiful than anywhere else that I have visited so far.

Moreover, I had bunch of lovely friends in the small town! A bestie or roomie that we share every moment together. A housemate who share with me many adventure stories. A super duper childish friend that have the power to cheer me up. A teacher that have many insightful thoughts. A blackface that can really smile and sharing his lessons with me. A pair of lovey dovey that can crazy with me. A bro that we can talk everything under the sun. A friend who is really eager to earn money. A bunch of cooking-mates that fattening together. And many kiwi ama/agong to crap and have fun! Look, I am really appreciate and thankful for what I have right now.

Last but not least, I want create value and beautiful memories in my remaining two months in the beautiful kiwiland. Take my time to adventure, explore and discover :)








2.02.2013

New Zealand Working Holidays 2013/2014


I've always been facinated by the 100% pure New Zealand! Guess what, I have been approved for the NZWH 2013/14 in the second round application! :D And we are going to Auckland next month!


There are so many things to be settled such as accommodation, job seeking etc. So for those who applied the NZWH 2013/14 visa successfully, kindly leave a message here to further discuss our itinerary, trips and problems together in the facebook private group haha!

Let's take many many beautiful pictures together!
I am hoping to write more blog posts about my NZWH too :D

HOPE TO HEAR FROM YOU SOON!

x

1.25.2013

ROAR~


Forget about all those troublesome things, focus and enjoy in my FINAL exam!

I hope all of you can graduate smoothly and successfully :)

GOOD LUCK!

ROAR LIKE A LION~~

NAM MYOHO RENGE KYO!


1.23.2013

堅強


如果我們註定無法改變這個世界的殘酷,如果我們註定無法遏制生命路途中,將要面對的艱難困苦和逆境厄運,如果我們註定要一個人孤獨的經歷一生的磨難與挫折,那麽就讓我們學會堅強。
   
一個人的路總要自己一個人走,一個人的苦總要自己一個人受,一個人的淚也總要自己一個人流。每個人都是一個獨立的個體,我們不能將這一個獨立的個體徹底的融入另一個個體的靈魂,所以我們必須獨自承受成長的磨礪,所以我們必須學會堅強。

   
第一次摔跤的時候,我們不懂得什麽叫堅強,只知道痛。

當一次次摔倒,又一次次重新站立起來的時候,我們明白了,擦乾眼淚,忘掉疼痛,咬緊牙關挺過去,就是堅強。

堅強是一點點磨練出來的,年輕的時候,我們倔強、輕狂而勇敢,我們敢於向一切未知的東西和舊的習慣勢力挑戰,那不是堅強,而是年少的無知和無畏。

  
當生活的挫折、磨難與壓力一次次將你絆倒,你又一次次站立起來,擦乾眼淚凝望遠方的時候,你的目光中那種堅毅的鎮定裏寫滿的才是堅強。

堅強的背後是血性的剛毅,堅強的背後是壓不曲的脊梁。

堅強的人,淚流乾了依然會挺起堅實的胸膛,堅強的人,血流盡了依然還會有永不改變的信仰。

生活中有太多的荊棘與坎坷,生活中也有著無數的意外與不測,生存本身就是一個巨大的博弈場,我們在博弈中不可能不受傷,也不可能總是風平浪靜,無驚無險。

自然界有適者生存的法則,人類也一樣,唯有堅強才能挺過一個個難關,唯有堅強才能邁過一道道溝坎。

堅強是一種信念,有了這種信念的支撐,我們就有了與命運與厄運抗衡的勇氣。

每個人身上都蘊藏著無盡的潛能,每個人身上也都有著堅強與懦弱的一面,只要我們在面對困難的時候,堅信自己是打不倒的,那麽潛藏在身體內部的堅強的力量便會勃然而發,你也就可以有足夠的信心去迎接挑戰。

堅強是一種智慧,堅強的人懂得生活中沒有一帆風順的成功,沒有盡如人意的一生。同時也沒有邁不過去的溝坎,趟不過去的河流,只有永不退縮,永不妥協,永不輕言放棄的人,才能在黑暗中尋找到黎明的曙光。

生活中的每個人都面臨過挫折、無奈、委屈與病痛,所有的磨難都是生活教會我們堅強與勇敢的手段。

命運從來不會眷顧懦弱與不自信的人,眼淚也不是超脫逆境的武器,唯有堅強才是戰勝困難的法寶。

男人需要學會堅強,堅強的男人才會有信心、有勇氣主宰這個世界。

女人也要學會堅強,堅強的女人才會有能力、有決心主宰自己的命運。

堅強是寒冷孤獨中堅毅的目光;

堅強是疼痛折磨時冷峻的微笑;

堅強是走過荊棘時含在心頭的眼淚;

堅強是面對厄運時不輕言放棄的品質。

堅強的人敢於直面坎坷,從容面對;

堅強的人敢於迎浪而上,自強不息;

堅強的人敢於改變人生,把握命運;

如果鍛煉過的鋼鐵只有淬火以後才會更加堅硬,那麽堅強的心一定也是經歷過種種磨難以後才會更加堅定勇敢。

握著我的手,給你信心,學會堅強,勇敢地去面對所有的挑戰。


1.21.2013

A Blessing or a Lesson



“We met for a reason, either you’re a blessing or a lesson.” – Frank Ocean
I honestly believe that every person we meet in this world is here to stay in our lives forever at some capacity or to stay there long enough to teach us something about life and ourselves and then go away. I keep a journal next to my bed titled, “What did you teach me?”  Those persons that come into my life and then end up leaving get sections in this journal. I try not to get sad about them leaving, instead I try to figure out why they were ever there to begin with and record what they taught me. It helps me to become more self aware and to grow; many times preventing repeat events from happening in my future.

1.19.2013

Le Finale!


Oh yes, it was an amazing night!


I thought most of them can't make it due to the presentation and assignments, but I am so grateful that everything turns well :)


I choose 99* Garden at Jaya 99 prudential building because I like the conducive environment. Also, the boss are willing to provide the whole area for us that night!!


This is a night where every different "gang" are mixing together irrespective of races and language and lecturer or student!


 Laugh.Fun.Joy.Love


3 mustakers of da class!


Muar Price and Segamat Princess

Party Rocks to the max!! Professor and lecturers dancing gangnam style happily!








After 4 years of training and polishing, the diamond-like potential that embedded inside our heart has 

finally revealed! The bling bling night has made everyone of you stunning, magnificent & flashy!

Love you guys, the night won't be young without you 

xx

1.04.2013

Bling


As mentioned earlier, this is one of the 30 list I must do before I graduate!

I hope this will be a memorable and successful party together with lecturers and course-mates :)

See you guys next week!

xoxo

12.24.2012

Merry~~~

Photo credit to Cheril! Gosh I can't resist his cuteness, he is the cutest kids I've ever seen!

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

Hope you guys enjoy this season of love with your friends and family!

See you soon!

X



11.22.2012

Just do it!


“Hope,” Beethoven cried, “you forge the heart into steel.” 

Hope is confidence. 
Hope is determination. 
Hope is courage. 

And faith is the ultimate expression of hope. Belief fortifies the heart.

Don't worry too much about how your future will be. Get your things done now! Enjoy every single moment now! It's good to have faith and hope, do your best no matter what realities are. I believe the best will come to you eventually!

GOOD LUCK!

11.01.2012

Believe



“It’s amazing how far you are willing to go when someone believes in you.” - Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love
You know, I had never heard this quote until today, I don’t think I ever realized how much I owe my successes to others. I was so lucky to be born to such amazing parents and siblings that ALWAYS believed in me, to have mentors that reminded me daily of their belief and to be surrounded by the most amazing friends throughout my life. It’s one thing to believe in yourself but knowing that you have others that believe in you just as much as you believe in yourself, and especially when maybe you have days that you don’t believe in yourself, that is truly special.
To all of you that have believed and me and still believe in me, thank you for helping me to succeed and to continue to chase my dreams. I wouldn’t be anywhere I am in my life today without you and I need you to know that I am aware of this. 

10.22.2012

Dance


Everyday brings a chance for you to draw in a breath, kick off your shoes, and dance.

"You've gotta dance like there's nobody watching,
Love like you'll never be hurt,
Sing like there's nobody listening.
and Live like it's heaven on earth"

William Purkey

9.11.2012

M

Hello Maple!

I've been struggling to focus in my revision although I haven't date with most of my books. No fear, no stress, still happy like mid term break, something wrong with me?

This sem has been a tough one for me, too many personal problems that distracted me. But come on problems, will double and triple kill you before I finish this semester.

I Had a great talk with great friend! and I finally found my motivation to study! 

Have a look of the movie below. What is your purpose of studying/working/living?




Hold on
Unshakeable Faith 

Happiness

Kosen Rufu!

7.29.2012

羡慕


有这么一则寓言:猪说假如让我再活一次,我要做一头牛,工作虽然累点,但名声好,让人爱怜;牛说假如让我再活一次,我要做一头猪,吃罢睡,睡罢吃,不出力,不流汗,活得赛神仙;鹰说假如让我再活一次,我要做一只鸡,渴有水,饿有米,住有房,还受人保护;鸡说假如让我再活一次,我要做一只鹰,可以翱翔天空,云游四海,任意捕兔杀鸡。这是挺有意思的一种现象,可谓风景在别处。

我们总是不自有自主地会去羡慕别人所拥有的东西,羡慕别人的学业,美貌,家境,男友,出国留学,等等,唯独忽视了一点,我们自己也是别人所羡慕的对象。

其实人总是在这样互相羡慕的。有的人常常幻想有一天一觉醒来,自己就会成为某某一样的人。可能是因为我们深知自己人生的缺憾,所以就会拿那些我们认为比较完美的人生来作比较,当做人生的坐标。其实这个世界上并不存在十全十美,那些我们所羡慕的人同时也在承受着他们的不如意。所谓家家有本难念的经,人虚荣的本性使他们原把自己风光的一面展示给人,又有谁能真正看到别人风光背后呢?很多时候,得到的就是所承但的,每件事都像硬币一样有两面,有正面就有负面。

人,尤其是女人往往喜欢拿自己和别人作比较,结果是“人比人气死人”,其实不妨和自己比比,看看自己是否越来越好了,是否离自己期望的目标越来越接近了。时不时给自己鼓励,你会做得更好。说不定在你羡慕别人的同时,别人也正在羡慕你呢。当然,有的人的确值得我们羡慕,不完全是因为他们得到的多,而是因为他们善于经营

羡慕别人是因为我们期待完美,期望可以活得更好。可是我们却忽视了一点,每个人的处境都不同,别人永远无法模仿。不过我们可以通过观察别人的长处来修正自己的短处,与其仰望别人的幸福,不如注意别人经营幸福的方法;与其羡慕别人的好运气,不如借鉴别人努力的过程。

不要再去羡慕别人如何如何,好好算算上天给你的恩典,你会发现你所拥有的绝对比没有的要多出许多。而缺失的那一部分,虽不可爱,却也是你生命的一部分,接受它且善待它,你的人生会快乐豁达许多

所以,真的不必去羡慕别人。守住自己所拥有的,想清楚自己真正想要的,我们才会真正地快乐!

6.25.2012

22

Super Early Celebrations with family :D

Eve with KAAPians

Big day at Soul Out, KL (boss belanja hahaha!)

First time ever at Zouk! 

very touched ;') 

thanks for coming all the way to KL :D

Garden's parteyy!


I am 22 now! Full of excitements and dreams in my 22.
2+2=4
Self identity-Determination-Sports-Sharing

很感恩我所拥有的一切
谢谢你们

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